Vasu’s explaination of Love via two life changing printouts


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Pa……..screams Kiara closing the entrance door after receiving two invites , a baffled Vasu comes out of his study room and mocks at her “Why…betu you make such noises  as  if someone  has come close to murder you .”Tejas hearing his father voice too joins him  by saying “पिताजी ये toh महोदया ka आदत है”.Very bad sweetie ! Vasu exclaims .

Now tell me why  did you shout like this  , he asks Kiara  exasperated  by leaving a deep sigh . Kiara lifts up the two invites received by her and shows it him .Now in low  voice she asks him “Why does Nagindas Khandwala College of Commerce, Arts and Management Studies is in Malad West, Mumbai, India sends two invites  to our place , Pa”

Err…not again Kiara , Tejas says and snaps the two invites and tires  it into  small bits and pieces.Very Good Tejas , Meera  coming with a hot case says .

Keeping the hot case on the table she smiles at Kiara and points out  two printout kept on the centre piece .Kiara and Tejas look  at the papers  with  their inquisitives eyes .

Printout 1: says   Swami Chinmayanda ′s quote

 Printout 2  ‘Being An Indian’ 

Being an Indian

The following guest-post was first published in The Book Club.

Almost three and a half years ago, I wrote the afterword for my book. Not being a writer (I am a web developer by profession), it was written from my heart, the way I saw and felt things. I just knew that I was right about my feelings, and more importantly, I was right about the feelings shared by millions like me. It really didn’t matter where they were, in India or abroad. So it came as no surprise to me as the current “Modi-tsunami” reflected the same sentiment throughout India. A common identity of being an Indian. If review and ratings of my book on Amazon and Goodreads are the yard-stick for how well it is received, it is very well received, not just by Indians, but also by non-Indians. Why? Because it has a story that tugs at your heart. Some folks who have never visited India want to go there now. A lot of feedback I am getting here, in the US, is that “I had no idea how rich of culture and diverse India was.” Even Indians here whose kids don’t know much about India learn a lot about how their parents think. About how their relatives back in India think.

This is what I wrote:

So, what is being an Indian?

Is it religion? Surely it can’t be, as India is a melting pot of many religions: Hindus, Muslims, Sikhs, Christians, Parsis, Jains, Buddhists, Jews, and many more. Would an Indian who was born in India and an Indian who was born in a different country have religion as a common bond? What if they both were Hindus and worshipped the same gods and goddesses, but were from different states? Is Gautam Buddha, who was born in India, and is now worshipped by many more non-Indians, an Indian God?

Is it language? Again, the answer is no, as there are 15 national languages, and over 1,600 dialects. Take a look at the Indian Rupee bill (the Indian currency). Its value is written in all 15 national languages.

Is it the culture and customs? Could be, but it isn’t the only thing, as different states have different customs.

Is it looks and features? Do you see a stranger abroad and assume that he is Indian just because of his looks? What if he is from one of the ‘Seven Sister States’ of India? Many of them have oriental features. Do you assume that he is from an oriental country? Or, he could look like an Indian, but be from one of the neighboring countries.

The Seven Sister States are a region in the northeastern corner of India, comprising of Arunachal Pradesh, Assam, Meghalaya, Manipur, Mizoram, Nagaland, and Tripura.

What about the millions of Indians who are not in India? What about their kids? What is their identity? They look like Indians, but think like westerners. What about kids from mixed marriages, where one of the parents is an Indian while the other is not. Where do they fit in? Are they Indians or something else? Which custom are they supposed to follow?

Is it the nationality or citizenship? What about all those Indians who now are citizens of different countries? Sure, they are not Indian citizens, but are they not Indians? When there is a catastrophe in India (like the earthquake in Gujarat), Indians all around the world rush to help. What makes them do it?

What is the common thread between a Punjabi from North India and a Tamil from South India? If both of them are Hindus, is it enough? Is it cricket and Bollywood movies? Yes, both are loved by most Indians. However, they are not the only thing. They both are great conversation topics.

If you live in India, the answer is very simple, you are among Indians, but not if you live abroad. Having lived in the US for the past 20 years, the definition of being Indian has been nebulous. My wife and I, like most Indians living abroad, try to instill Indian values in our kids, by sending them to Sunday school to learn our religion and culture. We take them to the cultural shows, musical shows, Indian festivals,etc…trying to hold onto our Indian-ness. We try to teach them cricket, and we take them to see Bollywood movies. Does going to Indian stores for groceries, cooking Indian food, and going to Indian restaurants (and ordering food for our non-Indian friends) make us Indians?

We try hard to hold on to our values, but know that it’s the Law of Diminishing Returns. Whatever we know, we try to pass on to our kids, and they will do the same. Until a few generations from now, there will be nothing to pass on. My great-great-great
grandkids will probably say, “Oh yeah! My great-great-great grandfather came from India.”
In the future, will an Indian who has just come from India, feel a common bond between himself and my great-great-great grandkids? Or will the Indian think to himself, “They look like Indians. They must be ABCD (American Born Confused Desi),” and my great-great-great grandkids will think, “Oh! A FOB (Fresh Off Boat).”

What is it that makes you go back to India? Is it family, friends, sight-seeing, business, or something else? Is your comfort level much more when you go to India because you fit in? Do you still feel it is your country? Is it the people there that make you feel at home? Or is it just a state of mind? Is it just a way of life? Is it just the way you look; the color of your skin, your features, the way you dress, or the clothes you wear?

The intention here is not to provide you with an answer, but to make you think, and ask yourself, “What is being an Indian to me?”

It’s entirely up to you…your point-of-view.

An Indian lies in the eyes of the beholder…what you choose to see.

You can travel the length and breadth of India, from Kashmir to Kanyakumari and from Mumbai to Kolkota, and not see a single Indian. You will see Hindus, Muslims, Sikhs, Christians, Jains, Buddhists, etc. You will see Maharashtrians, Gujaratis,UPites, Biharis, Bengalis, Tamils, Telugus, Malayalis, etc.

Or you will see Indians. जय हिंद (Jai Hind)

 -An Indian

The author was born and raised in Mumbai, India. He came to the US in 1989 to New York. He currently resides in Los Angeles with his wife and two children.

His book, India Was One, is available, both, in paperback as well as in eBook (for all devices) format. It is available on popular sites, like: Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Apple iBooks, Google Play etc., which can be accessed from anywhere in the world. For reader in India, in addition to it being available on online stores, such as: Flipkart, Infibeam, etc., it also is available in bookstores in Mumbai at Oxford Bookstore and Crossword bookstore. Very recently, it is also available in all the Sapna Book House stores in Bangalore and online with free shipping.

The book’s website also has a lot of goodies, such as, artwork used in the book, poem used in the book, some reviews (including media reviews that was published in India, Canada and the US), interactive map of India, a few sample chapters, and much more.

Source : https://medium.com/@indiawasone/being-an-indian-63c48ebaf79f#.bn9mi7dg6

After reading the article careful Kiara and Tejas who happens to be a doctor wishes to ask them something , but how ..was a big question in their minds 

Slowly Dr.Tejas asks looking at his parents  “ तो… err…you mean , you both believe in love of absolute kind and not..that which are bonded  by boundaries like caste and  community ”

“जी हाँ”Meera and Vasu chorused .That is why our grandparents  call y′all  by your name and the nature of work you both do ..

‘हाँ !हाँ! हाँ! हाँ! ’they choursed  by making Kiara and Tejas feel great about their parents thinking .

But before you retire to your respective pavilions “बच्चों think and याद रखो that  fall in love to fulfil your inner search of happiness  is good , but   by  faking it  up just  for  sake off  fashion or showing it off to your buddies is bad  ” Vasu smiling makes his contempt clear . Dad  , did you love Ma ?Dr.Tejas asks 

“Yes ..” Vasu replies by winking at him whose cheeks turns red on remembering his proposal which he had made to her  20 years   . Hmm …. shall we go  gyaan ke sagar parents,  Kiara  says in her style  as she opens  the door for her Aunty A    to come in .

With Lots of Love,

Author N

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